Jenny
27th March 2009, 09:43 PM
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MALE SURVIVORS RESIDENTIAL WEEKEND. Friday 14th ~ Sunday 16th AUGUST 2009
PLEASE REGISTER IN ADVANCE! Book the 2009 Weekend Retreat
This FOURTH annual weekend RESIDENTIAL weekend, held at Urchfont Manor, Wiltshire, is for non-offending adult male survivors of sexual child abuse and sexual assaults.
Arriving between 5.30pm AND 6.30pm on the Friday evening, you will be in the company of other men, working on issues that affect male survivors and by working throughout the weekend, in groups, small workshops and other arenas of healing, you will reach a deeper understanding of the issues that have affected you and you will begin to see a better way forward, from the hurt and pain that has held you in isolation for so long.
The weekend is highly participative and focuses on several activities - group discussions, sharing of stories, anger work, other emotional expression, shared creativity, relaxation and even FUN in a safe, nurturing environment.
We provide a recovery experience in a safe, powerful environment of shared healing, as the weekend focuses on the reality of recovery as can only be shown by being with and around fellow male survivors.
There are many valid reasons for holding these weekend, but a simple way of describing it is as follows:
We remember...
• 10% of what we read
• 20% of what we hear
• 30% of what we see
• 50% of what we hear and see
• 90% of what we do
....so we learn most by doing and reflecting on our actions!
There are safety rules built into the weekend to ensure everyones safety during the weekend, but the THREE primary rules we insist upon are:
1. MAINTAIN CONFIDENTIALITY BETWEEN THE GROUP.
2. NO VIOLENCE, OR THREATS OF VIOLENCE DIRECTED TOWARDS ANYONE, INCLDUING YOURSELF.
3. NO ILLEGAL DRUGS ALLOWED AT ANYTIME DURING THE WEEKEND.
Considerable attention has always been invested in creating an environment respectful of participants' needs, and it remains our intention to provide that at this great venue.
Due to selling out early last year, it is advisable to pre-book in advance, to avoid missing out.
Please be aware that the weekend could generate strong emotions, so it is recommended that you have to someone to talk with, be that in therapy or with a counsellor willing to meet with you after the event, if such a meeting is required.
It would also be advisable to ensure that on departing the weekend, that you take a day or two off work, so you can spend some time processing what happened during the weekend. Not always possible, but please consider it, but as you will be taking part in this over a weekend, its good to take some time out and rest.
N.B. This event is intended for men actively engaged in their own recovery work.
COMMENTS RELATING TO PREVIOUS WORKSHOPS:
"A unique experience that allowed me to share, explore and understand how sexual abuse effected myself and other survivors "
"I have never been to such a safe, AND non judgemental place before!
"I'm still reaping the benefits of spending time with some of the most amazing men I have ever met."
"I was able to be ME, vulnerable, scared, ashamed, angry and experience whatever emotions or feelings I had"
"Attending the weekend made me realise how far I'd come the past 12 months after breaking my 36 year silence, and that I was not alone.
"I could face the coming years and carry on my healing journey. I also met, and made some new friends, with these amazing people."
"All those men, together in one place, sharing their stories and visons of recovery was an experience I will never forget"
"I was scared of what would happen, and had no idea what would occur, but it surpassed everything I could have imagined"
"A fantatsic weekend, spent with some amazing men who made the whole experience worthwhile"
"I broke my silence whilst there, and have not looked back since the weekend"
"A special time, spent with some amazing men. I will be back again to feel the power that comes from the weekend"
DOWNLOAD AN APPLICATION FORM for the Male Survivor Weekend Retreat ARRIVE: FRIDAY 5.30pm - 6.30pm 14th AUGUST 2009
DEPART SUNDAY AFTER LUNCH 16th AUGUST 2009
Accommodation is in single ensuite bedrooms. (Tea/Coffee facilities and Towels provided)
Payment by cheque, for £235.00 can be sent to the following address:
SURVIVORS SWINDON, 161 VICTORIA ROAD, SWINDON. SN1 3BU
Please ensure the cheque is made payable to 'SURVIVORS SWINDON' N.B. You can pay in installments, prior to attending the weekend. Please get in touch if this is easier for you.
MALE SURVIVORS RESIDENTIAL WEEKEND. Friday 14th ~ Sunday 16th AUGUST 2009
PLEASE REGISTER IN ADVANCE! Book the 2009 Weekend Retreat
This FOURTH annual weekend RESIDENTIAL weekend, held at Urchfont Manor, Wiltshire, is for non-offending adult male survivors of sexual child abuse and sexual assaults.
Arriving between 5.30pm AND 6.30pm on the Friday evening, you will be in the company of other men, working on issues that affect male survivors and by working throughout the weekend, in groups, small workshops and other arenas of healing, you will reach a deeper understanding of the issues that have affected you and you will begin to see a better way forward, from the hurt and pain that has held you in isolation for so long.
The weekend is highly participative and focuses on several activities - group discussions, sharing of stories, anger work, other emotional expression, shared creativity, relaxation and even FUN in a safe, nurturing environment.
We provide a recovery experience in a safe, powerful environment of shared healing, as the weekend focuses on the reality of recovery as can only be shown by being with and around fellow male survivors.
There are many valid reasons for holding these weekend, but a simple way of describing it is as follows:
We remember...
• 10% of what we read
• 20% of what we hear
• 30% of what we see
• 50% of what we hear and see
• 90% of what we do
....so we learn most by doing and reflecting on our actions!
There are safety rules built into the weekend to ensure everyones safety during the weekend, but the THREE primary rules we insist upon are:
1. MAINTAIN CONFIDENTIALITY BETWEEN THE GROUP.
2. NO VIOLENCE, OR THREATS OF VIOLENCE DIRECTED TOWARDS ANYONE, INCLDUING YOURSELF.
3. NO ILLEGAL DRUGS ALLOWED AT ANYTIME DURING THE WEEKEND.
Considerable attention has always been invested in creating an environment respectful of participants' needs, and it remains our intention to provide that at this great venue.
Due to selling out early last year, it is advisable to pre-book in advance, to avoid missing out.
Please be aware that the weekend could generate strong emotions, so it is recommended that you have to someone to talk with, be that in therapy or with a counsellor willing to meet with you after the event, if such a meeting is required.
It would also be advisable to ensure that on departing the weekend, that you take a day or two off work, so you can spend some time processing what happened during the weekend. Not always possible, but please consider it, but as you will be taking part in this over a weekend, its good to take some time out and rest.
N.B. This event is intended for men actively engaged in their own recovery work.
COMMENTS RELATING TO PREVIOUS WORKSHOPS:
"A unique experience that allowed me to share, explore and understand how sexual abuse effected myself and other survivors "
"I have never been to such a safe, AND non judgemental place before!
"I'm still reaping the benefits of spending time with some of the most amazing men I have ever met."
"I was able to be ME, vulnerable, scared, ashamed, angry and experience whatever emotions or feelings I had"
"Attending the weekend made me realise how far I'd come the past 12 months after breaking my 36 year silence, and that I was not alone.
"I could face the coming years and carry on my healing journey. I also met, and made some new friends, with these amazing people."
"All those men, together in one place, sharing their stories and visons of recovery was an experience I will never forget"
"I was scared of what would happen, and had no idea what would occur, but it surpassed everything I could have imagined"
"A fantatsic weekend, spent with some amazing men who made the whole experience worthwhile"
"I broke my silence whilst there, and have not looked back since the weekend"
"A special time, spent with some amazing men. I will be back again to feel the power that comes from the weekend"
DOWNLOAD AN APPLICATION FORM for the Male Survivor Weekend Retreat ARRIVE: FRIDAY 5.30pm - 6.30pm 14th AUGUST 2009
DEPART SUNDAY AFTER LUNCH 16th AUGUST 2009
Accommodation is in single ensuite bedrooms. (Tea/Coffee facilities and Towels provided)
Payment by cheque, for £235.00 can be sent to the following address:
SURVIVORS SWINDON, 161 VICTORIA ROAD, SWINDON. SN1 3BU
Please ensure the cheque is made payable to 'SURVIVORS SWINDON' N.B. You can pay in installments, prior to attending the weekend. Please get in touch if this is easier for you.